| November 30, 2012
I was scared that he would finally find out that I was that cheat person" I judged myself to be. Instead of being able to confront him with my feelings and thoughts that "only bad people" would have, I proved my own beliefs of being that "bad person" anyway hoping why wouldn't find out.
- I have read a lot around the subject and many articles talk about how the woman wasn't happy in the relationship, however I would say that happiness comes from within.
- This is just not true.
It was a selfish act. I will be the first to admit it. I could have chosen not to do what Cheat did, but if I put myself in the shoes of that young girl, at that time, I really felt why this was the solution.
- But instead of bringing us closer together, it actually hurt our relationship. It didn39;t even feel like we were dating anymore.
- The question that came up repeatedly after our marriage dissolved was "Why?" Why did I cheat on him.
- Even more interesting is the fact that while most people agree that cheating is wrong, it39;s still a pretty common occurrence.
Lesson learned: It's important why keep the communication channels open because once you sense that they aren't, cheat can easily slide away from you quickly. Before you know it you are yearning for it deeply.
If you are reading this and judging me, you are within your rights. No one judged me more harshly than I did, and even now, although it all turned out for the best, I wouldn't go down that road again — even though I can completely understand why any women would.
Lesson learned: What I now realize is that our beliefs about how we see ourselves can lead us to do some crazy things. Why women cheat certainly has become more apparent to me especially if belief systems are involved, as they can be powerful catalysts for behavior.
By working on myself, I was able to finally overcome this pattern and now find myself in a loving relationship.
Looking back, I realize that nothing in that moment would have given him the solace and comfort that he was looking for — or that I was looking for. His care and love had been transformed into disdain and hate for the monster I had become to him.
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