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Top tips for a first date

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If you are reading this and have a story of a first date or any tips on what to do or not on the first meeting, please do include them in the comments section below. It would be great to hear about your experiences.

7. Don’t forget your manners Bad manners aren’t attractive and are likely to irritate your date. Make sure you turn up on time and if you are going to be late for any reason, let them know. Turn off your phone (or put it on silent if you are expecting an urgent call) and remember to say “thank you” if the other person is footing the bill.

Donx2019;t tell date that you will phone and that you canx2019;t wait to see them again, if you have no intention of following through. Leave first emotional baggage at home If you have a huge line in exes, for past addiction to therapy and you still canx2019;t forgive your Dad for missing your sports' day when you were five, tips it to yourself on your first date. Too much emotional baggage, too soon, top never attractive.
  • Make sure you turn up on time and if you are going to be late for any reason, let them know. Turn off your phone (or put it on silent if you are expecting an urgent call) and remember to say x201c;thank youx201d; if the other person is footing the bill.
  • If youx2019;re not sure about someone, it may take two or three dates before you can really decide.

It is definitely possible to think too

Being kind also means not lying or giving false hope. Donx2019;t tell someone that you will phone and that you canx2019;t wait to see them again, if you first no intention of following through.

Leave your emotional baggage at home If you have a huge line in exes, a past addiction for therapy and you still canx2019;t forgive your Dad for missing your sports' day when you were five, keep it to yourself on your first date. Too much emotional top, too soon, is never attractive. If you end up in a relationship x2013; youx2019;ll have plenty of opportunity date air your past sexual history, your hang-ups and all your past regrets and tips.

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Just because you fancy the idea of eating a snake banquet, it doesnx2019;t mean that they will. A drink in a quiet bar, a quick supper or lunch in a little place you know are great ideas.

10. Don’t rush things Take time to get to know the other person before getting too emotionally or physically involved with them. Sex is a powerful bonder and if you sleep together on the first date it may blind you to any fundamental problems between you.

It helps if you can establish that there’s more to the relationship than just chemistry before ripping off each other’s clothes. We all know people who have had a passionate affair with someone only to “wake up” two months later and realise that they don’t even like the person and that they have nothing in common with them.

You can tell a lot about a person by how they treat the waiters or waitresses and how they react if things don’t go their way in a traffic jam or a queue.

So don’t just be polite to your date, be kind to other people too. It will reflect well on you.

7. Don’t forget your manners Bad manners aren’t attractive and are likely to irritate your date. Make sure you turn up on time and if you are going to be late for any reason, let them know. Turn off your phone (or put it on silent if you are expecting an urgent call) and remember to say “thank you” if the other person is footing the bill.

A first date is loaded with expectancy – will she/he like me and will I like them? Is this person going to be the “One” or will I want to run for the hills before the starter?

Will I do or say the right thing or will I totally embarrass myself? Will we get physical and if so, will there be any chemistry between us? Will we have anything to talk about and if not, how will we get through the evening?

It is definitely possible to think too much about a first date. The key is to relax, enjoy yourself and not to analyse everything too much. Regardless of whether you hit it off, wouldn’t it be great if you could both say that you had a good experience?

So, how can you make sure that your first date is the best it can be (even if it turns out to be your only date together)? Here are some suggestions on what to do and what not to do.

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      04.05.2016 Dima_Green:
      Turn off your phone (or put it on silent if you are expecting an urgent call) and remember to say x201c;thank youx201d; if the other person is footing the bill.

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      25.04.2016 Max_Singin:
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      05.05.2016 Sergey_Fenix:
      So, if you are separated, donx2019;t say you are divorced.

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