She may not want to keep eye contact, don't worry, though! She'll likely prefer to repeatedly glance at you and hold short eye contact, rather than locking eyes for the entire conversation. If she's made some thoughtful comments, she's still listening.
If she doesn't seem to know how to lead the conversation, keep it going by asking for details on things she has already discussed.
Let her know you like her. This can be very hard to do! If she's shy, it can be nearly impossible. If you tell her, she'll feel really embarrassed, shy, and uncomfortable and she won't know what to do. You'll have to be calm and relaxed, and try to say it naturally and casually. Another problem is low self esteem. When a girl's self esteem is low, she thinks negatively about herself. This means that if a guy does like her, she might subconsciously tell herself you don't like her and that no guy could.
This means she's putting herself down, and that the only way for her to know you like her is to tell her, and even then she might have doubts/trust issues!
- However convincing and playful it may seem, making fun of a shy girl does not make her think you like her. Chances are, she is a self-conscious person and there is nothing she hates more than a guy who pokes fun at her, points out her bad points and humiliates her.
- In fact, she would probably find it rather annoying and would go off you easily. Instead, engage in a sweet conversation and make sure you at least make yourself look like you're listening.
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Her low self esteem will kick in and she'll be really upset thinking you don't like her. Also, don't go too long without talking to her. If she feels ignored, she might think you've lost interest in her. Let her know you like her. This can be very hard to do.
Just make sure you know how you're going to steer the conversation, because she won't. She may not want to keep eye contact, don't worry, though. She'll likely prefer to repeatedly glance at you and hold short eye contact, rather than locking eyes for the entire conversation.
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Always keep eye contact and don't just stand still and fiddle with your hands. Don't stare at her, try to display a natural, interested expression, rather than an intensive concentrated expression that you would normally use during a deep, meaningful conversation.
Protect her from your friends. Shy girls are especially shy around loud or outgoing people, so she'll probably feel very nervous. If your friends are all talking to her and asking her questions, she'll feel very overwhelmed and uncomfortable.
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