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Good ways to break up with your girlfriend

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Created: 27.08.2016
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Tell your close friends, but don't publicize your breakup to acquaintances or people you hardly know. It's probably a good idea to tell your close friends what happened between you and your ex. It's probably not such a great idea to start telling your entire social circle via Facebook, or every girl in your school, that you and your ex are history.

It just smacks of desperation.

Stay there for as long as she needs an explanation. Don't run out the door as soon as you've said the words "let's break up." Stay with her while she's processing the information, answering any follow-up questions she may have. If you keep returning to the same questions over and over again, tell her that you think that's happening.

Resist the urge to argue. When someone is being broken up with, there's a good chance they're going to be angry. Don't feed her anger by provoking, debating, or belittling her. Ex-lovers often say very hurtful things when they argue.

If your girlfriend is cheating, abusing drugs, manipulative, or increasingly disrespecting you, you can lay the blame directly on her actions. In most cases, this can cause an argument, so be prepared. The upside is that you're being honest with both yourself and her why the relationship didn't work, leaving you both with a better chance of finding lasting love later on.

Ex-lovers often say very hurtful things when they argue. Be prepared for a range of emotions. When you finally break up, you have to be prepared for anything. It could be sadness, anger, or even a lack of emotion. It's okay to feel any and all of these emotions during a breakup.

If you feel like showing emotion, don't hold back.

  • Stay there for as long as she needs an explanation. Don't run out the door as soon as you've said the words "let's break up.
  • Offer to talk with her at a later time if she has any questions.
  • Unless you've decided that it's absolutely the best to not talk after the breakup, give her the option of discussing things when the situation is a little more calm. This will give you both time to think, and may help her feel like she is also given a chance to get things off her chest.
Be reassuring. If it's appropriate, let
(Better yet, don't treat them poorly at all. ) If you're still in a relationship, you owe something to the other person.

Don't be petty. Being "petty" can be hard to define, but it usually includes doing things that you wouldn't want your girlfriend to do with you if she were hypothetically breaking up with you.

This is called the golden rule. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. It's a great rule.

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Don't be a blabbermouth. Use discretion when telling mutual friends about your break up. Bragging or gossiping could be very hurtful to someone who may already be in a fragile emotional state. On top of that, it could encourage your ex to sling some nasty rumors your way, and generally cause some immature behavior.

Stay there for as long as she

In girlfriend effort to be fair, and to not have your ex-girlfriend feel with she is directly responsible for the break of the relationship, be sure to mention the things that you could have changed to your the relationship better. In some cases, the blame will with solely on the other person. Ways those situations, good okay to tell it like it is. If your girlfriend is cheating, abusing drugs, manipulative, or increasingly disrespecting you, you can lay the blame directly on her actions.

Ways most cases, good can cause an argument, so be prepared. The upside is that you're being honest with both yourself and her why the relationship didn't work, leaving you both with a better chance of finding lasting love later on. Break that what girlfriend both your. Don't lead your ex on.

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      15.05.2016 Chase_Claire:
      Show her that you've given it some thought, and offer her some facts to back it up. Don't be aggressive or combative.

      27.04.2016 John_Street:
      Give her a truthful explanation. It's the least that she deserves. If you can't come up with a legitimate reason for why you're no longer interested in the relationship, try thinking it over; talk with a friend.

      19.05.2016 Carlos_Jean:
      But right before a celebration, test, or vacation is a bad time to do it. Give yourself enough time, and try to do it when she doesn't have anything else significant going on afterward.

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