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Why am i in the friend zone

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Created: 27.08.2016
Author: Max_Rock
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Think about the difference between a friendship and a romantic relationship. If you think a romantic relationship should just be a great friendship with physical intimacy thrown into the mix, then it's understandable to look for common ground first, and wait for the physical attraction to kick in sooner or later.

But not everyone sees relationships this way. Some people expect a "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" to play a particular role in their lives in order for physical attraction to emerge. The person who you want to be more than friends with probably makes a bigger distinction between "friend" and "romantic partner" than you do. Realize that many people (both male and female) expect to be courted in some way.

And many psychological issues play out in the relationship arena that don't ever arise in friendships. Some people, for example, look for a romantic partner who can play more of a parental role than a friend would.

Imagine yourself treating a different friend (one you aren't attracted to) the same way you treat your crush. Would that be weird and awkward? If so, the way you've been acting is probably flirting. If not, you probably haven't been making your feelings clear.

  • You can be kind and considerate without neglecting your own feelings. Think about the difference between a friendship and a romantic relationship.
  • You could spend your entire life waiting for them to "see the light" or you could move on and find someone who actually (through their actions, not their words) wants a healthy relationship.

Note that some people are attracted to

Take some time to think about how you've treated your crush, and how your crush has responded. Imagine yourself treating a different friend (one you aren't attracted to) the same way you treat your crush. Would that be weird and awkward. If so, the way you've been acting is probably flirting. If not, you probably haven't been making your feelings clear.

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Note that some people are attracted to toxic relationships. If your love interests keeps getting involved with people who treat them badly, despite your advice, you might just have to accept that they're working through some issues.

Consider why you're in the friend zone. Friends get put into the friend zone because they are acting like friends. If you aren't being clear that you like them, your crush might not realize that you are interested.

On the other hand, if you are being clear, it most likely means that your crush is trying to politely turn you down. Take some time to think about how you've treated your crush, and how your crush has responded.

Imagine yourself treating a different friend (one you aren't attracted to) the same way you treat your crush. Would that be weird and awkward? If so, the way you've been acting is probably flirting. If not, you probably haven't been making your feelings clear.

Consider why you're in the friend zone. Friends get put into the friend zone because they are acting like friends. If you aren't being clear that you like them, your crush might not realize that you are interested. On the other hand, if you are being clear, it most likely means that your crush is trying to politely turn you down.

Take some time to think about how you've treated your crush, and how your crush has responded.

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You can be kind and

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